欧玛英文

Elva Robison will never forget the phone call she received one September morning. Her daughter, Dianne , a 22-year-old college student, had been killed in a car accident.萧亚轩罗宾逊永远不会忘记九月的一个早晨，她接到电话。她的女儿，黛安，22岁的大学生，在一场车祸中丧生。The weeks and months that followed were full of grief for Elva . Relatives, church members and neighbors in her tiny farming town of blue Mound, Kan. , reached out to her and her family. But Elva drew the greatest comfort from her old high school student, Irma Hyson . It happened that Irma had lost her 21-year-old daughter, Nancy , in a car accident just a year before.此后的几个月里充满了悲伤，哦。亲戚，在她小小的农业镇蓝丘教会成员和邻居，坎。，达到了她和她的家人。但萧亚轩画的最大安慰她的老高中学生，欧玛希森。碰巧，欧玛已失去了她21岁的女儿，南茜，一年前在一场车祸中。Now Irma and Elva would spend hours crying and talking about their daughters. Sometimes they would bring flowers to the cemetery together. Irma understood like no one else what Elva was feeling, and that gave Elva strength.现在欧玛和埃尔娃会花时间哭泣，谈论他们的女儿。有时，他们会带着鲜花到墓园一起。Irma知道没有人喜欢什么萧亚轩感觉，这给了萧亚轩强度。In the many years since then, the two women have continued to share in one another’s losses, hardships—and joys. “I don’t know what I’d do without her,” Elva says of Irma . “I’ve told her,’ You have saved my life.’ And I know she feels the same way about me.”在很多年之后，有两位妇女继续分享彼此的损失，同甘共苦。“我不知道没有她我该怎么办，”萧亚轩说欧玛。“我告诉她，“你救了我的命。”我知道她对我也是这样的感觉。”Some studies find that having a wide range of social contacts—belonging to church and community groups as well as having a network of friends— offers the greatest protection. But others show that the most important is having been just a few close friends—“Quality beats quantity all the time,” says Laura Carstensen of Stanford University . Elva and Irma would surely agree. Five years after Irma ’s daughter died, her husband, Paul , was killed in a tractor accident. Elva immediately went to Irma ’s side and helped with household tasks and anything else she could. “She practically lived here for a while,” Irma says.一些研究发现，具有广泛的社会接触，属于教堂和社区以及网络的朋友-提供最大的保护。但其他人表明，最重要的是有几个亲密的朋友-“质量比数量的所有时间，说：”劳拉Carstensen斯坦福大学。萧亚轩和欧玛肯定会同意的。五年后，欧玛的女儿死了，她的丈夫，保罗，是在一个拖拉机事故中丧生。萧亚轩立即IRMA的身边，帮助做家务和其他任何她能。“她在这里住一段时间，”艾玛说。When Elva ’s husband, Truman , died in January 2001, Irma stayed close by her side. Elva ’s doctor suggested she get counseling（心理咨询）or join a support group for the bereaved（失去亲人的）. But Elva told him she really didn’t need any of that because she had Irma .当萧亚轩的老公，杜鲁门，2001年一月去世，欧玛呆在她的身边。萧亚轩的医生建议她去咨询（心理咨询）或加入一个支持小组为失去亲人（失去亲人的）。但萧亚轩告诉他，她真的不需要，因为她爱玛。Both celebrating their 84th birthdays this year, the two best friends still drive, travel and keep guns handy to scare the wolves off their farms.无论是庆祝自己的第八十四岁生日的那一年，两个最好的朋友开车旅行，并保持枪上吓唬狼离开他们的农场。In fact, there’s solid scientific evidence that friendship can extend life. People with strong social networks are shown to:事实上，有确凿的科学证据表明，友谊可以延长寿命。具有较强的社会关系的人所：increase their chances of surviving life-threatening illnesses;增加他们的生存机会威胁生命的疾病；have stronger immune（免疫）systems;有更强的免疫系统（免疫）；improve their mental health;提高大学生的心理健康；live longer than people without social support.活的比没有社会支持的人更长。望采纳，谢谢！！

埃尔娃罗宾逊永远不会忘记她的电话收到9月的一个早晨。她的女儿,戴安娜,一个22岁的大学生,在一场车祸中丧生。接下来的几周和几个月为埃尔娃充满了悲伤。亲戚,教会成员和邻居的农业小镇蓝丘,菅直人。之后,她和她的家人。但埃尔娃从她那里得到最大的安慰老高中生,厄玛贡茶。碰巧厄玛失去了她21岁的女儿南希,在车祸前一年。现在厄玛和埃尔娃哭会花上几个小时,谈论他们的女儿。有时他们将花一起去墓地。厄玛明白没有人能像埃尔娃是什么感觉,这给埃尔娃力量。在多年之后,两个女人继续分享彼此的损失,hardships-and快乐。“我不知道我做什么没有她,”厄玛埃尔娃说。“我告诉她,“你救了我的命。”,我知道她对我的感觉一样。”一些研究发现,拥有一个广泛的社会contacts-belonging教会和社区团体以及有一个网络的朋友,提供最大的保护。但其他人表明,最重要的是有几个亲密的朋友——“质量比数量,”斯坦福大学的Laura Carstensen说。埃尔娃和厄玛肯定会同意。五年后厄玛的女儿去世了,她的丈夫保罗,在拖拉机事故中丧生。埃尔娃立即去厄玛的身边并且帮助我们做家务和其他。”她几乎在这里住一段时间,“厄玛说。当埃尔娃的丈夫,杜鲁门,死于2001年1月,厄玛待在她身边。埃尔娃的医生建议她咨询(心理咨询)或加入一个支持组丧(失去亲人的)。但埃尔娃告诉他她真的不需要这些东西,因为她厄玛。庆祝今年过84岁生日,最好的两个朋友仍开车,旅行和手边放枪把狼吓跑他们的农场。事实上,有坚实的科学证据,友谊可以延长寿命。强大的社交网络的人证明:增加他们生存的机会威胁生命的疾病;有更强的免疫(免疫)系统;提高他们的心理健康;比没有社会支持的人活得更长。

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I finished the work on monday and will go to Xi An at this weeked. The university-live will be come but i have no good idea to play this days. And we will have no time to meet~!I will miss you !Good lLuck!偶是初中生，呵呵。见笑哩~学习来的QQ：170551535交学英语的前辈

by Erma Bombeck［美］欧玛·庞贝克 "You Don't Love Me" “你不爱我” How many times have your kids laid that one on you? And how many times have you, as a parent,resisted the urge to tell them how much? 有多少次你的孩子把这句话强加于你？ 作为母亲，你又有多少次按捺着内心的冲动不向他解释你爱他有多深？ Someday, when my children are old enough to understand the logic that motivates a mother, I'LL TELL THEM ........ 终有一天，当我的孩子长大，能够理解驳倒母亲做各种事情的良苦用心时，我会告诉他的。I loved you enough to bug you about where you were going,with whom,and what time you would be home. 我爱你至深才打探你要去何地，跟谁去，什么时候回来。I loved you enough to insist you buy a bike with your own money that we could afford and you couldn't. 我爱你至深才坚持你一定要自己挣钱买自选车，虽然我们买得起。I loved you enough to be silent and let you discover your hand-picked friend was a creep.我爱你至深才保持沉默，让你自己去发现你精挑细选的朋友原来是个可怕的人。I loved you enough to make you return a Milky Way with a bite out of it to a drugstore and confess,"I stole this." 我爱你至深才逼着你把咬了一口的巧克力还给杂货店，同时承认："是我偷吃的。" I loved you enough to stand over you for two hours while you cleaned your bedroom,a job that would have taken me fifteen minutes. 我爱你至深才把打扫卧室的活儿留给你，看着你花两个小时干完，虽然这活我来干只要15分钟就够了I loved you enough to say,"Yes, you can go to Disney World on Mother's Day." 我爱你至深才对你说：“好的，你可以在母亲节去迪士尼乐园。”I loved you enough to let you see anger, disappointment, disgust and tears in my eyes. 我爱你至深才让你看到我眼中的气恼、失望、憎恶和眼泪。I loved you enough not to make excuses for your lack of respect or your bad manners. 我爱你至深才不为你的失礼或者其他不良行为做辩解。I loved you enough to admit that I was wrong and ask your forgiveness. 我爱你至深才会承认自己错了并请你原谅I loved you enough to ignore "what every other mother" did or said. 我爱你至深才不介意你说：“瞧瞧别人妈妈怎么说怎么做”I loved you enough to let you stumble, fall, hurt and fail. 我爱你至深才让你蹒跚学步品尝跌倒、受伤和失败的滋味。I loved you enough to let you assume the responsibility for your own actions,at six, ten or sixteen. 我爱你至深才要你为自己的行为负责，不管你是6岁、10岁还是16岁。I loved you enough to figure you would lie about the party being chaperoned,but forgave you for it ....after discovering I was right. 我爱你至深才猜出你总说聚会有大人在场是鬼话，并验证了自己的判断后，仍旧原谅了你。I loved you enough to shove you off my lap,let go of your hand, be mute to your pleas ...so that you had to stand alone. 我爱你至深才硬把你从我的腿上放下来，扒开你的手，对你的恳求置若罔闻。这样你才能独立。I loved you enough to accept you for what you are,not what I wanted you to be. 我爱你至深才接受原原本本的你，而不是我所期望的你。But most of all,I loved you enough to say NO when you hated me for it. 然而最重要的是，我爱你至深才对你说“不”，尽管你会因此记恨我。THAT WAS THE HARDEST PART OF ALL. 而这，也是最难的一方面 。