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优秀的英语散文:你值得更好的社交圈
There is a saying that who you socialize with defines who you are.
有一句话叫：你的社交关系决定了你是什么样的人。
I find it very inspiring.
我觉得这非常醍醐灌顶。
Find a healthier socializing way.
找些更有营养的社交方式吧。
Don't fall into the pit of gossip, especially not in the office.
别掉进八卦的深坑，尤其不要在职场里。
The reason some people participate in workplace gossip in the first place is that they are afraid of being isolated.
有些人参与职场八卦的原因是：他们害怕被孤立。
If this is exactly your situation, then you are drinking poison to quench thirst.
如果这说的正好是你，那么你这就是饮鸩止渴了。
One of the worst things of workplace gossip is that it does not have much logic. Participants simply hope that other people will recognize their opinions so that they themselves can get emotional satisfaction.
职场八卦最要命的一点是它并没有太多真正的逻辑，参与者们只是单纯希望其他人都来认可自己的观点，进而得到情绪上的满足。
People who share the same opinions as them are friends, otherwise they are enemies.
观点一致就是朋友，观点不一致就是敌人。
Whether the gossip concerns the family life of a colleague or private life of a celebrity, it is essentially the same.
不管八卦内容是同事的家长里短，还是明星私生活，本质上都是这样。
Such kind of socializing will not give you any chance of self-improvement. Instead, it may lead you to a moral abduction.
这样的社交不会给你带来任何自我提升的机会，还可能让你遭遇道德绑架。
It would be better for you to take some courses and learn skills that interest you on your spare time.
不如利用业余时间去参加些课程，学一些自己感兴趣的技能。
Or you can join some hobby groups and meet like-minded people.
或者是参加一些兴趣组织，找一些志同道合的人。
There goes an old saying: We would rather fight with a sensible person than argue with an idiot.
有句老话说得好：常与同好争高下，莫与傻瓜论短长。
优秀的英语散文:请不要成为道德绑架的帮凶
There are many kinds of panic.
恐慌有很多种。
And one of the most terrifying one of them all is moral panic.
而其中最可怕的之一就是道德恐慌。
Moral panic is defined as public anxiety or alarm in response to a perceived threat to the moral standard of the society.
所谓的道德恐慌指的是：当一个社会的道德规范感受到一个可见的威胁时，人们对这个威胁表现出的公开不安和警惕。
The road to moral panic has several stops.
通往道德恐慌的道路上有很多站。
The first is concern.
其中的第一站就是“担忧”。
This concern spreads from person to person, and is amplified by cultural forces until rational concern becomes irrational fear.
这种担忧会从一个人传给另一个人，并且会被文化力量增幅放大，直到最终理性的担忧变成了非理性的恐惧。
People come to believe something terrible is happening. Something they cannot see. Something they can't control.
然后人们就会开始相信，有什么可怕的事情正在发生。这是一种他们看不见的东西。这是一种他们无法控制的东西。
It has come for others. It will come for them.
这个东西已经发生在别人身上了。而它总有一天会发生在我们自己身上。
The result of this can be very dangerous because, whether or not the threat is real, the response certainly is.
这种现象的结果可能会很危险，因为，不管那个威胁是真是假，人们采取的应对行为显然都是真的。
And it is often excessive.
而且这些应对行为常常是过激的。
For example, you may know the disastrous witch-hunt in the Western history.
比如，你可能知道西方历史里那段灾难性的“女巫狩猎”运动。
Too many innocent people died in it.
有太多的无辜的人因它而死。
So ask yourself: What's more terrifying? Fear? Or the frightened?
所以，问问你自己吧：到底什么更可怕?是恐惧本身?还是那些感到恐惧的人?
优秀的英语散文:有些小确幸，金钱真的买不来
Whenever I began to clean the house, my routine is to turn on my husband's PS3 and play my music folder (which contains a great variety of artists, might I add) but just a moment ago I grabbed a seat to take a little break and as I was sitting.
每当开始在家打扫卫生的时候，我的惯例是把丈夫的PS3打开，播放里面我的音乐文件夹(容我插一句，里面有我添加的许多风格迥异的音乐艺术家作品)，不过刚刚，我找了张椅子准备坐下来休息一会儿。
Chris Botti came on, the song, "Embraceable You" and it relaxed me and I had become so comfortable in my seat that my mind drifted away to a beautiful scene of a moment of mine back in time and right then I said to myself "This is what I love".
克里斯波提的歌开始放了，是那首“想要拥抱你”，听着我感觉异常轻松，身心愉悦，思绪飘散回往昔种种美好时刻，我对自己说，“这是我钟情的时刻。”
I love a peace of mind. I mean, you just can't buy that. I often find myself reveling in the many moments I'm blessed to receive that provides my environment to be at ease.
我喜欢精神上的宁静祥和。说真的，这不是钱能买的。在很多时候我的精神都处于亢奋之中，我尤其希望能有这样的时刻来放松身心。
And right now, I'm alone, the house has a wonderful aroma in the air, the music is playing, the door is ajar , the fan is on, the windows are open and the sun is shining so bright that it gives my place the perfect light. Aah!!! I love this feeling!
此时此刻，我一个人独处，房子里弥漫着芬芳，音乐在播放，门半掩着，风扇开着，窗户开着，窗外阳光耀，眼家里的光线恰到好处。这一切契合着我的心境。
No one is calling me, knocking at my door and there is no loud hustle and bustle outside.
没有人打电话来，没有人敲门，外面也没有熙然嘈杂声。我不禁开始思考，主啊，要做什么才能换来一次这样的时刻。
Then I started thinking, Lord, what did I do to deserve this moment? Never mind, I just want to enjoy it. Thank you Lord for allowing me this peaceful feeling of freedom. I hope all that maybe reading this can soon indulge in a mental pleasure such as this. There is nothing like it.
这也没有关系，现在我要及时行乐。谢主隆恩，让我享受到心无所事，随遇而安。我希望阅读到这篇文章的人也能尽快感受到类似的精神愉悦。再没有什么感觉能与之媲美了。
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优秀的英语散文:升职加薪一定是好事吗?
Is getting a promotion always a good thing?
职位晋升一定是一件好事吗?
It may not be that simple as you think.
事情可能没有你想的那么简单。
Sometimes if it comes when you are not ready, it can be quite a trouble.
有时候，如果你在没有准备好的时候晋升了，可能会碰上不少麻烦。
But first, if you just got a promotion, Congratulations!
不过首先，如果你最近真的升职了，那恭喜你!
After over-delivering on project after project, and exceed ing all your goals that you set with your manager when you started your job, your employer is finally rewarding you with a change in title and an increase in the compensation.
在一个接一个项目超额交付，并且超额完成了所有你开始工作时与上级制定的目标之后，你的雇主终于奖励你了，给了你职级上的升迁，并提高了你的薪水。
You’re exhilarated, but you’re also a little confused. What do you do now?
你很兴奋，但也有点困惑。接下来你要做什么?
First off, start with figuring out what you will no longer take on.
首先，你要弄清楚今后不再做的事情。
Assuming that your promotion comes with more responsibilities, you will probably need to learn how to master your new tasks, and you won’t be able to do that efficiently if you have to do that on top of your old job.
假设升职后你要承担更多责任，你可能需要学习掌握新任务，如果你同时还必须做完所有的旧工作，那么你将无法有效地完成任务。
This requires trusting other people, which can be difficult if you have controlling tendencies.
你需要信任其他人，如果你有控制倾向，这可能很难做到。
The higher you move up, the more you have to depend on others. So start to learn to let go of your micro-managing tendencies, and trust that you’re not the only one who knows how to do everything.
职级越高，你就越需要依靠别人。因此，趁早开始放弃你的微观管理倾向，要知道，你不是唯一知道如何做所有事情的人。
优秀的英语散文:来自陌生人的温暖
I was on vacation in Hawaii with my family. We were at the beach all day and at some point I took off my ring I got as a gift from my mom for graduation (beautiful, gold, inscribed, full of sentimental value) and placed it in the cup holder of a foldable chair. Beach day continues, and we pack up and go home. Once home, I realize what I've done. I realize my ring isn't on my finger. Panic ensues.
我正和家人在夏威夷度假，我们一整天都待在沙滩上。有那么一会儿我把戒指摘了下来，这枚戒指是妈妈送我的毕业礼物(很漂亮的带有花纹的金戒指，其中蕴含了很多情感价值)，我把它放在了折叠椅的杯架上。沙滩上还未日落时我们收拾好东西回家了。一到家我就想起来了，我发现戒指不在手上就慌了。
We race back to the beach with only 20 minutes to spare before sunset. Get to the beach and locate the general area we were laying out earlier.
还有20分钟就日落了，我们奔回海滩。到了海滩，我们找到了白天休息的大概位置。
About 15 strangers in the area got down on their hands and knees to help my sobbing mess self search for my ring. And they helped me to the end. Eventually in a stroke of luck, I find the ring. I stand up and exclaim to the group of kind strangers "I found it". They all crowd around me so happy and congratulatory as though they had stake in this game. My tears of loss turn into tears of joy and thankfulness for the amazing effort put forth by this group of people.
在那儿有大约15个陌生人，他们都趴在地上帮助哭成泪人的我找戒指。他们一直帮我找到最后。最终机缘巧合我找到了戒指。我站起来朝那群善良的陌生人喊：“我找到了。”他们都很开心地围到我身边大声庆贺，好像他们赌赢了这场比赛。我之前因为丢东西而哭，现在变成了因为高兴和感激这群人所付出的努力而哭。
优秀的英语散文：没有努力的动力，应该怎么办
Realize that you have options. There are places even here in the US where people don't have the option of being out of survival mode enough to ponder these issues.
要明白你还有选择如何生活的权利。在美国，有些地方的人们甚至还陷于如何生存下去的水深火热之中，根本没时间考虑其他问题。
If I were you, this is what I’d do: I’d pack a backpack and start traveling for up to a year.
如果我是你，我会打包行李，开始为期一年的旅行。
The beauty of traveling is that, with little effort, it will take you out of your head - new currencies, new foods, new accents and people so you HAVE to pay more attention to everyday things.
旅行的魅力在于，只需要耗费一点点精力，就会让你跳出现有的生活状态，去认识新的货币，接触新奇的食物，不同的口音和人们，于是你就会更多地去关注日常事物。
Whether abroad or in the US, I’d suggest you do some volunteer work. When you don’t know what to do for yourself, go do something for another person (or for animals, the environment, etc…).
无论你去国外还是在美国，我建议你做一些志愿者工作。当你不知道自己要做什么时，那就去为别人(或动物，环境等…)做一些事情。
Besides traveling and volunteering, something else that’s great for when you don’t give a hoot is to read.
除了旅行和志愿者活动，在你对一切不屑一顾的时候，阅读会有益于你。
Read just for reading sake! Not to make you a better person, to get ahead, to pass the time, to be productive. Just find anything or anyone that interests you and read about it.
为了阅读而阅读!读书不是为了成为一个更好的人，而是为了进步，消磨时间或是提高创新思维。只要找任何你感兴趣的人或物去阅读就可以。
Remember you are not the one feeling this sense of helplessness.
你要知道每个人都会有感到无助的时候。
It's ok to fail. I know how bad you feel now. You worked so hard to get into your dream school and you didn't get admitted in the end. It just didn't make any sense. Just let all these emotions out. Cry it out. And let it go.
失败了没关系。我知道你现在有多难过。你如此努力却最终没有被你梦寐以求的学校录取。但现在说这些都没有意义了。让你的情绪宣泄出来。大声哭出来吧。然后让它随风而去。
You are not alone. There are people around you who cares about you. Your parents, friends, siblings. They were always there. Go talk to them and tell them how you feel.
你并没有孤立无援。你身边还有很多关心你的人。比如你的父母，朋友和兄弟姐妹。他们一直都在。试着与他们谈谈心，告诉他们你的感受。
Life is meaningful. Stop whatever you are doing and think about your life. What is important to you? What makes you happy? Or what makes you particularly sad? These are a few places you can start.
生活是有意义的。不管你在做什么，都要停下手中的事去思考你的生活。对你来说什么才是重要的? 什么会使你快乐?或是什么会让你特别伤心?这些都是你可以重新出发的点。
Life's beautiful. It may seem like life’s unfair because you didn't get you wanted after giving up so much. But these failures and setbacks will renew your perspective in life. You realise you didn't really need whatever you're working so hard for. You start to cherish the people and the things around you. Endure the darkness because it shows you the stars.
生活是美好的。有时候你可能会觉得生活待你不公，因为在你放弃很多东西以后依旧没有得到你想要的。但是这些失败和挫折都会刷新你的人生观。你会意识到你所努力争取的并不是你真正想要的。于是你开始懂得珍惜身边的人和事。忍受了黑暗才能看见漫天的繁星星。
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