驾驶马桶去飞行
How Shoul W e Treat Money There is a saying in Chinese that 'speaking of money spoil the relationship. Likewise if you are to borrow money from friends, likely you will spoil the friendship one day. This just the opening for this topic, the rest , you just add some bullshit to make it. If not long enough, then add cowdang to make it long till you are happy.我有一个朋友，向我借钱，我不想借，但怕伤了友谊，应该怎么办？Whether lending money to someone or not, it is always a controversial topic which concerns us, or it is more like a paradox. At one end, we reluctantly lend our money to the borrowers, for the simple reason that we are afraid that we may never be able to get the money back. On the other hand, never do we hope to break up with our friend or hurt our relationship. If the borrowers want to borrow large sums of money, even our closest friends or relatives, we may feel very contradict ourselves. As if you have lent your money to a close friend, it can really huit the relationship with your friend if you pest on him to ask for the money. The friend may feel you distrust him and question his capacity, and he even try to reconsider your relationship. Therefore, it can really cause contradiction when someone ask you for money. As far as I can see, if borrowers try to borrow a small amount of money, I probably do as he wishes. However, if borrowers try to borrow a large sums of money, I will decline his request definetely. In an effort not to hurt our relationship, I may fabricate an excuse something like I am experiencing a shortage of funds, my situation is not better than you.
不计较的心
Whether lending money to someone or not,it is always a controversial topic which concerns us,or it is more like a paradox.At one end,we reluctantly lend our money to the borrowers,for the simple reason that we are afraid that we may never be able to get the money back.On the other hand,never do we hope to break up with our friend or hurt our relationship.If the borrowers want to borrow large sums of money,even our closest friends or relatives,we may feel very contradict ourselves. As if you have lent your money to a close friend,it can really huit the relationship with your friend if you pest on him to ask for the money.The friend may feel you distrust him and question his capacity,and he even try to reconsider your relationship.Therefore,it can really cause contradiction when someone ask you for money. As far as I can see,if borrowers try to borrow a small amount of money,I probably do as he wishes.However,if borrowers try to borrow a large sums of money,I will decline his request definetely.In an effort not to hurt our relationship,I may fabricate an excuse something like I am experiencing a shortage of funds,my situation is not better than you.
