坏坏的小幸福
一Don't go for looks；they can deceive. Don't go for wealth；even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. 别倾心于容貌，因为它具有欺骗性，也别倾心于财富，它也会消散，倾心于那个能带给你笑容的人吧，因为一个笑容能使漫漫长夜如白昼般明亮。 二Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose,teach you a lesson,or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become.You never know who these people maybe (possibly your roommate, neighbor, coworker, long lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger),but when you lock eyes with them,you know at that very moment they will affect your life in some profound way. 有时候，一些人进入你的生命，你马上知道他们是注定要出现的，他们的到来是为了达成某种目的，给你提供教益，帮助你认清自己以及自己想要成为怎样的人，你不会知道这些人是谁（很可能会是你的室友、邻居、同事、失散多年的朋友、爱人，甚至是素未谋面的陌生人），可是当你的目光锁定他们的那一刻，你就知道他们会给你的生命带来深远的影响。 三 Sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful. and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower, or heart. 有时候，发生在你身上的事情看似可怕、痛苦和不公平，但仔细一想，你就会发现，如果不克服这些障碍，你就不会意识到自己的潜能、力量、意志和决心。 四 Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheerstupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, whatever they may be,life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless. The people you meet who affect your life,and the success and downfalls you experience, help to create who you are and who you become. 任何事的发生都是有原因的。 没有事情是偶然出现或运气使然。 疾病、伤痛、爱情、与成功失之交臂，以及彻彻底底的糊涂犯错，这些都是你对精神极限的考验。无论这些小小的考验是什么，没有了它们，生命就像是一条不知通往何处的平坦大道，纵然安全舒适，但却了然无趣、毫无意义。 你所遇到的影响你生命的人，你所经历的成功与失败，都有助于塑造和成就你的人生。 五 Even the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact,they are probably the most poignant and important ones. If someone hurts you, betrays you,or breaks your heart,forgive them,for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart. If someone loves you,love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you,but because in a way, they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things. 即使是不好的经历，也能从中吸取经验。 事实上，这些经验可能是最深刻和最重要的。 如果有人伤害了你，背叛了你，或伤了你的心，原谅他们把，因为他们帮助你理解了信任，让你懂得了在敞开心扉时保持精神是很重要的。 如果有人爱你，你要无条件地爱他们，不仅因为他们爱你，还因为他们教会了你去爱，以及如何敞开你的心扉、放开你的目光。 六There are always some people came to life among some people to leave. Unnecessary grudge, maintain understand it. Because not everything should be interpreted Toutou purely. But also because women are from Venus, men are from Mars.There are always suffering can not seem to explain to others, only those who are around you can understand.There are always emotional, gone, it will not come back.There are always some people, like perennial spoiler, do not explain that they understand.But, anyway, whether today or tomorrow is full of poverty, to remember that the most valuable is the spirit, the soul of the key flashes is appealing.总有一些人来到生命当中，一些人离开。不必要怀恨在心，保持理解吧。因为，不是每件事情都要被解释的透透彻彻。也因为女人来自金星，男人来自火星。总有一些磨难似乎跟别人解释不了，唯有身边的那些人能够懂你。总有一些情感，走过了，就不会再回来了。总有一些人，常年喜欢搅局，不要解释，表示理解。但是，不管怎么样，无论今天是富有还是明天是贫穷，要记得，人最宝贵的是精神，灵魂里的闪烁也是吸引人的关键。 七'Tribulations wanted a glass of wine, not for suffering always come up and share with others, because no one wants to hear your stories. On the dead of night, he would drink it. Tomorrow morning, get up, please voice, full of energy, because you can not copy the first day. Practical action, to become a good servant of God, and the glory of the cross into a witness. Love should have used to restore the real world. The sun shone, you have five fingers outstretched, attempting want to glare through the windows into it? Because we serve God and live, tolerance, the atmosphere, the same people do not remember evil. To face with a wide of heart rebellion.磨难就想一杯美酒，苦难不适合总是拿出来和别人分享，因为，没有人想要听你的那些故事。就着夜深人静的时候，自己将它喝下去。明天早上起床的时候，请神采奕奕，精神饱满，因为，你的第一天无法复制。用实际行动，成为一个神的好仆人，将十字架变成荣耀的见证。用爱来还原应该有的真实世界。阳光照进来的时候，你有没有伸开五指，企图想要遮住强光透进的窗户呢？我们因为服侍神而活着，宽容，大气，同样不记人的恶。拥有宽广的心来面对悖逆。 八 Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people that you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Let yourself fall in love, break free, and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, it will be hard for others to believe in you. You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets. 让每一天都过的有价值。 珍惜生命中的每一刻，并尽你所能地从中取得收获，因为你不会有从头再来的可能。 跟那些你从来没有说过话的人交谈，并注意聆听。 让自己去爱，挣脱束缚，让目光高远。 要昂起头，因为你有权利这么做。 告诉自己，你是一个伟大的人，并相信自己，因为如果你不相信自己，别人就很难相信你。 你可以做任何想做的事来塑造你的人生。 创造你自己的人生，并无怨无悔地去过这一生吧。 九Most impotantly,if you LOVE someone, tell him or her,for you never know what tomorrow may have in store. And learn a lesson in life each day that you live. That's The Story Of Life. 最重要的是，如果你爱某个人，就告诉他/她。因为你不知道明天将会怎样。 活着的每一天里都要有所收获。 这就是生命的故事。生命的故事。 十 The power of loveJackie Lantry is a part-time hospital clerk in Rehoboth, Mass. She and her husband have adopted two girls and two boys from China. When Jackie asked her children what they believed in, they said "family."“It was not therapy, counselors or medications. It did not cost money, require connections or GREat privilege. It was love: just simple, plain, easy to give.” 爱的力量Jackie Lantry是美国麻省利河伯镇的一位医院兼职会计。她和她的丈夫已经收养了两名中国男孩和两名中国女孩。当Jackie问及孩子们的信念时，孩子们异口同声地回答：“家庭”。“治愈和转变孩子，靠的不是医疗，也不是心理咨询，更不是药物。它并不需要花费金钱，也不需要什么社会关系或者特权。只需要爱， 只需要付出简单而平实的爱”Jackie如是说。满意请及时采纳，谢谢！找了好久，望采纳！！！
彩衣girl
导语：困难是你最终成功的必经之路。下面是英文心灵鸡汤的好文章，欢迎欣赏。
What is the secret ingredient of tough people that enables them to succeed? Why do they survive the tough times when others are overcome by them? Why do they win when others lose? Why do they soar when others sink?
The answer is very simple. It's all how they perceive their problems. Yes, every living person has problems. A problem-free life is an illusion—a mirage in the desert. Accept that fact.
Every mountain has a peak. Every valley has its low point. Life has its ups and downs, its peaks and its valleys. No one is up all the time, nor are they down all the time. Problems do end. They are all resolved in time.
You may not be able to control the times, but you can compose your response. You can turn your pain into profanity—or into poetry. The choice is up to you. You may not have chosen your tough time, but you can choose how you will react to it. For instance, what is the positive reaction to a terrible financial setback? In this situation would it be the positive reaction to copout and runaway? Escape through alcohol, drug, or suicide No! Such negative reactions only produce greater problems by promising a temporary solution to the pressing problem. The positive solution to a problem may require courage to initiate it. When you control your reaction to the seemingly un-controllable problem of life, then in fact you do control the problem’s effect on you. Your reaction to the problem is the last word! That’s the bottom line. What will you let this problem do to you? It can make you tender or tough. It can make you better or bitter. It all depends on you.
In the final analysis, the tough people who survive the tough times do so because they’ve chosen to react positively to their predicament. Tough times never last, but tough people do. Tough people stick it out. History teaches us that every problem has a lifespan.
No problem is permanent. Storms always give way to the sun. Winter always thaws into springtime. Your storm will pass. Your winter will thaw. Your problem will be solved.
翻译：
阳光总在风雨后
坚韧不拔的人成功的秘诀是什么?为什么他们能挺过艰难的时刻，而其他人却被困难所压倒?为什么成功的是他们，而失败的是其他人?为什么他们能够一飞冲天，而其他人会深陷泥沼?
答案很简单，全看他们是如何看待自己面临的难题。没错，每个人都有不同的困难。摆脱难题困扰的人生只能是一个幻想，就像是沙漠中的海市蜃楼。还是接受这个事实吧!
每一座山都有巅峰，每一个峡谷都有谷底。人生也有跌宕起伏，高潮和低谷。没有人一生都能平步青云，也没有人一生都时乖命蹇。难题总有了结的一天。随着时间的推移，一切难题都会迎刃而解。
也许,你不能控制时局，但是你能够冷静应对。你既可以把痛苦转换为亵渎神灵的不敬言语，也可以赋予之以诗意，这全在于你自己的选择。时运不济的你或许无从选择,但是你可以选择应对的方略。比如，遭遇一次严重的经济挫折后，究竞怎么做才称得上积极应对呢?在这种情况下，放弃后潜逃?借酒浇愁?吸毒麻醉?抑或自杀?这样的逃避是积极应对吗?当然不是!这样一些消极的反应似乎暂时解决了迫在眉睫的难题,但事实上只会招致更棘手的难题。积极的应对一切困难需要鼓起勇气着手去解决。面对人生中看似无法控制的难题，当你能够控制自己的应对，那么，事实上，你就控制了难题对你的影响。你对难题的应对是至关重要的、最根本的。难题能对你产生什么样的影响呢?它可以使你脆弱，也可以使你坚强;它可以使你升华，也可以使你痛苦。全在于你自己。
归根结底，坚韧的人之所以能挺过艰难的岁月，是因为他们选择积极地去应对困境。艰难的岁月不会没完没了，但是，坚韧的人会始终不懈，坚持到底。历史告诉我们，每一个难题都有始有终。
任何难题都不会永远存在。暴风雨过后一定是灿烂的阳光。严冬必然会化为春光。你的暴风雨也会过去，你的冬天也会回暖。你的难题终将解。
if you want to understand adversity, take two identical acorns from the same oak tree and plant them in two different locations. plant the first in the middle of a dense forest, and the other on a hill by itself.
如果你想理解什么是逆境，就去拿两颗从同一棵树上摘下来年龄相同的橡树果，并且把它们种到不同的地方。第一颗种在浓密的树林当中，而另外一颗则单独种在一座山上。
here's what will happen. the oak standing on a hillside is exposed to every storm and gale. as a result its roots plunge deep into the earth and spread in every direction, even wrapping themselves around giant boulders. at times it may seem the tree isn't growing fast enough—but the growth is happening underground. it's as if the roots know they must ported the tree from the threatening elements.
事情的结果便是这样。那颗长在山上的橡树经历了大风大雨，结果它的根深深地扎进了泥土中间，并不断向四周扩张，甚至把自己置身于巨大的石块当中。有时它可能看起来长的不是很快，但这时它却在地下悄悄生长着，好像它的根知道自己必须快速生长来保护树木免受自然危害的影响。
what about the acorn planted in the forest? it becomes a weak, frail sapling. and since it is protected by its neighbors, the little oak doesn't sense the need to spread its roots for support.
而种在树丛中的橡树果是什么样子的呢?它变成了一棵虚弱的`小树苗。因为有周围树丛的保护，所以这棵小树苗便不知道要把自己的根扎得更深。
don't be afraid of adversity! welcome it! that's your surefire route to ultimate success.
不要害怕困难!要欢迎它!困难是你最终成功的必经之路。
I will know that only those with inferior ability can always be at their best ，and I am not inferior.There will be days when I must IN THE WORLD constantly struggle against forces which would tear me down，Those such sa despair and sadness are simple to recognize but there are others which approach with a smile and the hand of friendship and they can slso destroy me.Against them，too.I must never relinquish control.
我将明白只有低能者才会江郎才尽，我并非低能者。我必须不断对抗那些企图摧垮我得力量。失望与悲伤一眼就会被识破，而其他许多敌人是不易察觉的，它们往往面带微笑，伸出友谊之手，却随时有可能将我们摧垮。对它们，我们永远不能放松警惕。
And with this new knowledge I will also understand and recognize the moods of him on whom i call， I will make allowances for his anger and irritation of today for he knows not the secret of controlling his mind.i can withstand him arrows and insults for now I know that tomorrow he will change and be a joy to approach.
有了这项新本领，我也更能体察别人的情绪变化。我宽容怒气冲冲的人，因为他尚未懂得控制自己的情绪，我可以忍受他的指责和辱骂，因为我知道明天他会改变，重新变得随和。
No longer will I judge a man on one meeting;no longer will i fail to call again tomorrow on he who meets me with hate today.this day he will not buy gold chariots for a penny，yet tomorrow he would exchange his home for a tree.My knowledge of this secret will be my key to great wealth.
我不再只凭一面之交来判断一个人，也不再因他今日的可恶而明日不给他打电话。今天不肯花一分钱买金蓬马车的人，明天他也许会用全部家当换一颗树苗。知道了这个秘密，我可以获得极大的财富。
Henceforth I will recognize and identify the mystery of moods in all mankind，and in me.From this moment I am prepared to control whatever personality awakes in me each day.I will master my moods through positive action and when I master my moods I will control my destiny.
我从此领悟到人类和我自己情绪变化的奥秘。对于自己千变万化的个性，我不在听之任之，我将积极主动的控制情绪，从而掌握自己的命运。
I will become master of myself.
我将成为自己的主人。
好人旦旭
使用双手的是劳工，使用双手和头脑的舵手，使用双手、头脑与心灵的是艺术家，只有合作双手、头脑、心灵再加上双脚的才是推销员。下面是心灵鸡汤英语经典语录，欢迎参考阅读！ 1、纸飞机飞的再远也带不走我的心情。 Paper airplane fly again far also don't go with my mood. 2、原来爱情会过期，剩下的只是回忆。 The love will expire, leaving only memories. 3、不要等到决定放弃你的时候你才爱我。 Don't wait until you decided to give up you when you love me. 4、为了一刻柔情，我倾尽一辈子的温暖。 In order to moment tender feelings, I for devoting a lifetime of warmth. 5、你不再需要我了，这是我给自己的理由。 You no longer need me, this is why I give myself. 6、其实我知道的，我在等待着快乐的救赎。 In fact, I know, I'm waiting for the joy of redemption. 7、现在才发现，原来你是谁都无法替代的。 Now just detection, originally you who can't replace. 8、你以为我贫穷、相貌平平就没有感情吗？ You think I'm poor and plain, there is no feelings? 9、时间最美的地方，就是让你我成为我们。 Time is the most beautiful place, is to make you and I become we. 10、我假装四处看风景，但我的眼里只有你。 I pretend to be looking around the scenery, but I only have eyes for you. 11、因为受过伤，才对感情变得更加小心翼翼。 Because of injury, feelings of being more careful. 12、我深爱的女人爱着的男人，请你照顾好她。 My beloved woman love a man, please take good care of her. 13、陪伴，就是不管你需不需要，我一直都在。 Company, is whether you need not to need, I've been in. 14、有多少的辛酸曲折，竟会在梦中难以割舍。 How many poignant twists and turns in the dream is difficult to give up. 15、不要对我太好，以免我以身相许你又不要。 Not too good to me, lest I ass you don't again. 16、世上再美的风景，也比不上回家的那段路。 Again the beautiful scenery in the world, is no match for the home that way. 17、去看海吧，你会发现自己的烦恼有多么小。 Go to the sea, you will find how small your troubles. 18、或许还喜欢，只是少了非要在一起的执着。 May not like, just less must together of the persistent. 19、完美的谎言，骗得了别人，也骗不了自己。 A perfect lie, deceive others, also don't cheat yourself. 20、千万别把自己表现得有多深情没有人会在意。 Don't behave in a more loving myself no one will care. 21、到最后，心这样空了，美好的都叫做了曾经。 In the end, the heart empty, so wonderful is called once. 22、只要爱着一个人，也就永远会有失望的时刻。 As long as the love a person, and there will always be disappointed. 23、爱是藏不住的，闭上嘴巴，眼睛也会说出来。 Love is hid, shut your mouth, eyes also will say it. 24、每一个懂爱的人，都会遇到一个不懂爱的人。 Every understand a loving person, will meet a man does not understand love. 25、如果想要我主动，那你要有让我主动的勇气。 If I want to active, that you want to have the courage to let me active. 26、会不会有人，就算把命丢掉也不会把我丢掉。 Will someone, even if to lose our lives will not lose me. 27、爱情之间没有什么对与错，只有适合不适合。 Love is no right and wrong, between only suit doesn't fit. 28、千万个美丽的未来，抵不上一个温暖的现在。 Thousands of beautiful future, less than a warm now. 29、如果有一天你不再爱我了，我会安静的离开。 If one day you no longer love me, I will quietly leave. 30、我管着你，你惯着我，这就是我想要的生活。 I tube you, you always with me, this is the life I want. 31、我能经得住多少诋毁，就能单得起多少赞美。 I can stand much vilified, can afford much praise. 32、爱是烧痛我双手的`烟火，却也为你照亮了黑。 Love is a burning pain in my hands fireworks, but also lit up the black for you. 33、人生就像杯水，孤独，孤独，一杯子就没了。 Life is like a glass of water, lonely, lonely, did not have a cup. 34、失去了就是失去了，为何苦苦的去折磨自己。 Lost is lost, why struggling to torture yourself. 35、坚强的人总是笑给别人看，却只哭给自己听。 It takes a strong man always smile to others, but only cry to myself. 36、女人要是肯豁出去，绝对比男人走得远走得狠。 If a woman willing to lose yourself, absolutely go too far, sore than men. 37、惜之，爱之，护之。非为其美，独其信于尔矣！ Regret, love, care. Woman not for its beauty, only the letter! 38、我把心都用来爱了你，却忘了用一点来爱自己。 I put my heart to love you, but forget to love yourself with a little. 39、我喜欢你这件事，太直接了，没办法拐弯抹角。 I like you in this matter, too direct, don't beat around the bush. 40、你对我好，我自然也会对你好，就是这么简单。 You are good to me, I will also to hello nature, is so simple. 41、寂寞层层包围，我再也没有力气走出这片重围。 Surrounded by layers of loneliness, I have no strength out of the trap. 42、你信不信有一种感情，一辈子都不会输给时间。 You believe it or not there is a feeling, lifetime all not lost to time. 43、我的男神有两只眼睛，一个嘴巴，可萌可萌了。 My male god have two eyes, a mouth, can sprout can sprout. 44、放下，简简单单过每一天，一切淡淡的，就好。 Put down, simple over each day, all light, it is good. 45、忘了有多久没有联系，我就是你人生的陌路人。 Forget how long no contact, I am your life of strangers. 46、早晚都要放弃的，那现在的坚持就没有意义了。 Sooner or later, all want to give up, and now it doesn't make any sense to insist on. 47、并不是我执着，而是因为你值得让我为你而执着。 Is not my persistence, but because you deserve let me for you. 48、当你不了解一个人的时候，不要轻易的去爱或恨。 When you don't know a person, do not easily to love or hate. 49、我知道，一切都是我的错，是我乎虐了你的感受。 I know, everything is my fault, is I abused you feel. 50、我要挥霍青春的岁月，然后去做铁石心肠的船长。 I want to waste of my youth, and then to do the captain of a heart of stone. 51、把别人看得太重，结果却被别人看成什么都不是。 The others too seriously, but the results be as nothing. 52、害怕只是我自作多情，所以要假装和你势均力敌。 Afraid I unfounded worry just, so want to pretend to close to you. 53、夜盲的我在那个下雨的夜晚看到你的眼里只有我。 Night blindness of in the rainy night I see you only have eyes for me. 54、找不到对的人，其实很可能是，改不掉错的自己。 Can't find the right person, actually is likely to be, don't change wrong yourself. 55、要是你还爱着我的话，就不会轻易的说再见了吧。 If you still love me, won't easily say goodbye. 56、很庆幸可以走到你身边，很遗憾没能走进你心里。 Glad to go to you, I'm sorry can't walk into your heart. 57、爱情就像乘法，其中一项为零，其结果永远为零。 Love is like multiplication, one is zero, the result is always zero. 58、若今世只得个曲终人散，盼来生能与你长久相伴。 If this had to end, look forward to the afterlife can accompany with you for a long time. 59、学着做自己，并优雅地放手所有不属于你的东西。 Learn to be yourself, and gracefully to let go of all does not belong to you. 60、灯光熄灭了，音乐静止了，滴下的眼泪已停不住。 The lights went out, the music rest, can not drop tears has stopped. 61、我们就像多米诺骨牌。我倒向你，你却倒向别人。 We are like dominoes. I am to you, but you have to others. 62、回忆里的人我永远不想见，因为见了就没回忆了。 Memories of the people I never want to see, because saw didn't recalled. 63、爱情是糖果，甜到悲伤。友情是水泡，一碰即碎。 Love is candy, sweet to sad. Friendship is a bubble, a touch namely broken. 64、记住了并不代表是永恒，忘却了也不等于没发生。 Remember do not represent is eternal, forget also is not equal to didn't happen. 65、得到的就一定要珍惜，因为没有人会在原处等你。 Get will cherish, because no one will wait for you in his place. 66、如果你不回头，你永远不会知道我在你身后等你。 If you don't look back, you'll never know I waiting for you behind you. 67、你不是最漂亮的女孩，但你是我心中最美的存在。 You are not the most beautiful girl, but you are my heart the most beautiful. 68、爱一个人就是，撕下自己的皮，去修补他的伤口。 Love a person is, tear off their own skin, to repair his wounds. 69、放弃、你说得如此容易。我却要用尽力气去执行。 Give up, you're so easily. But I will to do with all his might. 70、就算余生我与你再无瓜葛，我也不后悔与你初识。 Even if the rest of my life I no longer do with you, I don't regret met with you. 71、一个人有一个人的自由，两个人有两个人的甜蜜。 A person has the freedom of a person, two people have two personal sweet. 72、爱最大的苦恼在于你让我得病，可你又是我的药。 Love the greatest misery is that you make me sick, but you and me. 73、如果没有当初相遇，是不是就不会有今天的疼痛。 If not met, isn't there would be no today's pain. 74、心死也许真的就是那么一句话，那么几个字的事。 Dead heart perhaps really is so in a word, so a few words. 75、每个人，都有一个世界；每首歌，都有一个故事。 Everyone, there is a world; Each song has a story. 76、如果你觉得现在走的辛苦，那就证明你在走上坡路。 If you think that now I do hard, then prove that you are out of difficulty. 77、我想拥抱每个人，但我得先温暖我自己，请容忍我。 I want to hug everyone, but I have to warm myself, please bear with me. 78、我只是你心的过客，我为你停留，而你却不肯收留。 I'm just your heart of traveler, I stay for you, and you would not take. 79、爱这种东西很奇妙，不能假装，也不能勉强和强求。 Love this thing is very wonderful, I can't pretend, also can not be forced and forced. 80、用伤害别人的手段来掩饰自己缺点的人，是可耻的。 With the people to protect oneself hurt others, is shameful. 81、众里寻他千百度，蓦然回首，那人却在灯火阑珊处。 He found thousands of baidu, suddenly look back, that person but in the lights dim. 82、虽然还爱你，但是我已经慢慢习惯没有你的日子了。 Although I still love you, but I already get used to day without you. 83、有些情不自禁的忧伤，我们总是慢慢的学会了隐藏。 Some can't help sadness, we always slowly learned to hide. 84、现在的你看到那么憔悴的我，会不会有一丝的心疼。 Now you see so haggard, I will not have a love dearly. 85、以前要的不是这种以后，想要的不是你的虚情假意。 It used to be, not after the want is not your false.
