某心理咨询师收到中学生

Dear Xiao Wang, I have received and read your letter, in which you mentioned that you wanted to lose weight by dieting. It is only natural that young girls at your age hope to look beautiful. However, in my opinion, health is more important than beauty. For a student, studying is the first thing to consider while appearance is the second. So do not let others' opinions affect your normal life. However, if you do want to lose weight, it is a good idea to do it by getting more exercise and changing unhealthy eating habits. The most important thing is that you keep a healthy state of mind, as it will help with your studies, and will also help you overcome difficulties in dieting. I hope my advice will be helpful to you and I'm looking forward to your next letter.

原因：1、青少年逆反心理；2、代沟，对问题的认识不一致；3、父母的教养方式是否有问题；4、双方沟通方式存在问题。解决：1、处于逆反阶段的青少年大多都存在这些问题，是常态不是病态；2、尝试站到父母的立场上看事情；3、主动改善双方关系，可以对父母增加一些关心，让他们觉得自己慢慢长大、懂事了，他们就可以放心从而减少对自己的干涉；4、少抱怨，少发脾气，学会克制自己的冲动情绪，成为一个成熟的人；5、改善双方的交流，可采取口头、电话、书面、第三方等多种形式进行交流，注意多倾听。6、增强控制情绪的能力，减少对学习和生活的影响。

作业的话，自己写比较好哦~~~这个不难啊，翻译他给的一些话就好，再用一些好词好句