介我拿手～～～ When the conversation comes to love， it always raise the biggest emotion， reaction and But， What is love? "Love is that feeling you get when you meet the right "This is how many people approach a Consciously or unconsciously， they believe love is a sensation (based on physical and emotional attraction) that magically， spontaneously generates when M or M Right And just as easily， it can spontaneously degenerate when the magic "just isn't there" You fall in love， and you can fall out of The key word is Erich Fromm， in his famous treatise "The Art of Loving，" noted the sad consequence of this misconception: "There is hardly any activity， any enterprise， which is started with such tremendous hopes and expectations， and yet， which fails so regularly， as " (That was back in 1956 -- chances are he'd be even more pessimistic ) So what is real， lasting love? Love is the attachment that results from deeply appreciating another's LOVE IS A CHOICE If love comes from appreciating goodness， it needn't just happen -- you can make it Love is You can create Just focus on the good in another person (and everyone has some) If you can do this easily， you'll love ACTIONS AFFECT FEELINGS Now that you're feeling so warmly toward the entire human race， how can you deepen your love for someone? The way God created us， actions affect our feelings For example， if you want to become more compassionate， thinking compassionate thoughts may be a start， but giving tzedaka (charity) will get you Likewise， the best way to feel loving is to be loving -- and that means While there are many different ways to define love and there are many different ways to love someone (or even yourself)， here is a general guide to Say it When you say the words "I Love You"， they should carry with them the desire to show someone that you love them， not what you simply want to When you say it， make sure you really mean it and are willing to do anything for that special Empathize Put yourself in someone else's Rather than impose your own expectations or attempt to control them， to understand how they feel， where they come from， and who they Realize how they could also love you back just as Love unconditionally If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations， then it is not love at all， but deep-seated opportunism (one who makes the most of an advantage， often unmindful of others) If your interest is not in the other person as such， but rather in how that person can enhance your experience of life， then it is not If you have no intention of improving that person’s life， or allowing that person to be themselves and accepting them as they are， and not who you want them to be， then you are not striving to love them Expect nothing in return That doesn't mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving Try loving just for the sake of Realize that someone may have a different way of showing his or her love for you; do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same Realize it can be lost If you realize that you can lose the one you love， then you have a greater appreciation of what you Think how lucky you are to have someone to Don't make an idol of the person you This will place them under undue pressure and will likely result in you losing Never stop loving Even if you have been hurt before you should not stop giving You must love yourself before you can love But before you can love yourself， you must know and understand yourself This deep understanding of yourself will automatically lead you to love yourself (since you will become aware of your divine essence) and you will also love every other person at that same moment (because you will recognize that same divine essence in every other person) The above is what I think about LOVE
Hello， my dear friends! What’s my favourite season? Let me tell My favourite season is Spring is a lovely season， I There is a garden behind my In spring， the trees become green and the flowers give off There are many butterflies and bees over the The butterflies are dancing and the bees are Sometimes it It usually rains The rain moistens the trees and the I think they may say， “We’re very The rain is very It can help ” What a beautiful scene! Don’t you think so? And what about your favourite season，could you tell me?
